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San Diego Divorce and Family Law Attorney, Paul Staley, released a new YouTube video: San Diego Child Custody Attorney: What determines custody and visitation?

 Mediation Matters in California

 

What actually determines custodial rights and visitation is one of the most frequently asked questions concerning divorce.  Rather than being blindsided by new information, find out how you can prepare yourself in this quick guide!

Why Mediation?

What takes place before a custody hearing in a California family court is extremely important to both parties involved.  Of course, coming to a mutually beneficial agreement that suits everyone well would be ideal in lieu of a legal custody dispute.  No one wants to be engaged in a custody battle.  But for parents who can’t reach a decision on their own, they’re required by state law to see a court-appointed mediator when they go to family court.

A mediator works to help both parties reach that mutually agreed upon solution .  However, given the hardships and complications that come with divorce, these agreements don’t always come to be.

If two parents can’t reach a custodial agreement after mediation, it then moves forward to the next phase in a custody dispute the courts.  Even after mediation, recommendations from those sessions definitely factor into the judge’s final decision. The most important thing to do right is be ready for mediation.

Your court-appointed mediator not only shares information from these sessions, but will offer their professional opinion to the judge as well.  When custody is awarded in these cases, those same mediation sessions can also factor into how a judge decides visitation too.

Take Your Mediation Seriously

Since California family law courts take mediation seriously, you have to make an effort to take it even more seriously.  Prior to your session, read up extensively on statewide legal views on custody disputes and where your case lies on the spectrum.  Many cases agree to legal joint custody, but that doesn’t always mean equal physical time; that’s something to think about if you were worried about your intense work schedule affecting your joint custodial rights.

It’s best to work out legal concerns and possible solutions during mediation.  Since the purpose of a mediation is to come to an amicable agreement, it’s important to listen to both your former partner and the objective third party (your mediator).  Work toward a more civil and productive mediation for a better custodial arrangement for yourself and your child.

Transcript of Paul’s Video

San Diego Child Custody Attorney: What determines custody and visitation?

Hi, this is Paul Staley, San Diego family lawyer. I’d like to talk to you about custody and visitation in family courts in San Diego. Now, you’ve already heard maybe a little bit about our discussion regarding mediation, but you may be confused with the terminology used by the judges and the mediators regarding custody. What’s legal custody? What’s physical custody? What’s joint custody? What’s joint legal custody? Anyway, we’re going to spell those things out for you.

The most common kind of legal custody is joint legal custody. And that’s commonly ordered. And what it means that each of you parents has the right to participate equally in the decision-making regarding your child’s health, education and welfare. It’s as simple as that. It’s kind of unusual for one parent to have, for example, sole legal custody. That can happen where one parent has demonstrated, well, a history of abuse, or other factors that disqualify that parent from really been an active participant in decision-making for the child. So the general rule is, you’re probably looking a joint legal custody.

Now let’s talk about physical custody. Joint physical custody is maybe the most misunderstood term that is used in family court. A lot of uninitiated litigants think that that means that they’re looking at a quote unquote 50:50 child sharing arrangement — where the child’s going to be with each parent half of the time. And that’s not what it means it all. It simply means that the child is going to be spending significant times of physical custody with each parent. Not necessarily equal. You could have a joint physical custody order where a child’s with one parent 10% of the time and the other parent 90% of the time. So don’t be confused by the terms. Don’t assume that joint physical custody means a 50:50 sharing plan.

Now, what goes into the judgemaking decision about who’s going to have –what we would call primary physical custody? And, we’d start with what’s the status quo being the most important factor. What’s been going on? How long have the parents been separated? Is there a pattern that’s already established that the child is accustomed to? Is there a pattern we don’t want to disrupt? So does the first thing that the court is going to be looking at. The court is going to assume, unless proven otherwise, that each of you is a competent and caring parent. And unless that’s not true, it’s not really a good idea to start the mud slinging. If you really want World War III, and the other party has it coming, go to it. But, if this is simply a situation where you and the other parent, whether it’s a wife, girlfriend, boyfriend are on the outs, but you are still good parents, then you’re probably gonna best served by finding a way to work through your disagreements.

Now, you will have gone through mediation by the time the time you get in front of the judge. You might have already reached an agreement. If so, there’s not really much to talk about. You’re not going to have to argue to the judge and dredge up all the facts and allegations that are involved in the case. You can simply agree that whatever agreement you’ve reached can now be made an order of the court. And that’s really a very common practice. I know that lot’s of people think that family court is going to look like what they’ve seen on television. It’s very, very, rarely the case. Most cases do resolve by agreement and they resolve with both parents going home relatively happy or relatively unhappy as the case may be. I look forward to talking to you about your case.

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